Wire pgvector semantic search into memory system ...

- Add vector(768) column + HNSW index to memory_facts

- Add LLMBackend.embed() with Ollama + fallback implementation

- MemoryStore: cosine-distance search with ILIKE fallback

- New memory tool params: source, confidence, expires_days, source_context

- Update extractor, sqlite_store, deps wiring

- Add pgvector to requirements

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Migrate storage to PostgreSQL with SQLite fallback; misc fixes ...

- Add PgSessionStore (asyncpg pool) and PgMemoryStore replacing aiosqlite
- Keep SqliteSessionStore + SqliteMemoryStore for zero-dependency quick start
- Selection logic in deps.py: DATABASE_URL set → PG, else → SQLite
- Add asyncpg>=0.29 to dependencies; add DATABASE_URL / DB_PATH to config
- Add RESPONSE HYGIENE rule to persona: never echo tool output or plan state
- Add developer profile user tools: weather, internal_monitor
- Update README: developer profile, DB section, current tool/profile state

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>