handbook alignment: profile.updated mirror, health contract, Synapse gateway ...

Handbook gaps closed (10-platform auth/health/notifications):

- webhooks: handle user.profile_updated — mirror the gnexus-auth profile
  into navi_users (name, contact fields, avatar_url — new column, boot
  migration); role/permissions keep their dedicated events
- auth: avatar_url now flows through the login upsert and the API-token
  resolution path
- /health: status is now the aggregate of the sub-checks (degraded embed
  or hive no longer reports plain ok); embed probe cached for 10 s; body
  grew the machine-readable checks{} map, legacy embed/hive payloads kept
- Synapse: s2s delivery gateway — POST /webhooks/synapse (both spellings),
  per-user delivery secrets (synapse_targets, Fernet-encrypted, shown
  once), verification via gnexus-synapse v0.1.2 client lib, idempotent
  event ids; deliveries are verified and logged for now — navi generates
  no outbound events by decision; web-push stays as the local browser
  channel
- webclient settings: Synapse deliveries panel (add/revoke targets)