agent parallelism: background tools, bg spawn_agent, parallel tool batches, message queue ...

- backgroundable tools (terminal/ssh_exec/peer/spawn_agent/code_exec) detach
  via TaskManager with per-session/global/spawn caps, rate limit and TTL
- completion delivery both ways: task_update event (out-of-band) + pending
  notes injected into the next turn; tasks tool (list/check/wait/cancel)
- parallel tool-call batches (profile-level gate, off by default) with
  ToolStarted up-front, tagged event mux, call-order results, one save,
  plus dangling tool_call repair on session load
- user message queue instead of busy error: message_queued frame,
  back-to-back drain on the same socket, headless fallback on disconnect
- pin mcp<2 (v2 renames FastMCP with breaking API changes)
- docs: tasks.md (new), websocket/api/agent/config updates, tasks manual,
  spawn_agent background param, persona contract section